Tuesday, 25 October 2016

"If It Was Safer On The Ground We Wouldn't Be On a Boat"

Aside from providing an amazing comment on the conditioning of today's young people - not only from the mass media's constant focus on "celebrities lacking in integrity" but societies failure in "showing the kids that they matter" - the lyrics to The 1975 's Loving Someone contains a poignant message on the current refugee crisis. 


"WE SHOULDN'T HAVE PEOPLE AFLOAT"

As the civil war in Syria continues, so does the racist rhetoric. The Sun's explicit scepticism around the age of the refugee children (which they actually put in inverted commas) for me, simply highlights how bizarre mindsets can be in regards to a person fleeing danger; I find it insane that people are more concerned about how we are going to scientifically prove their ages, than they are with how we are going to help them. So what if someone is over 18? How are we so in-sensitive as a society that we are more than happy to refuse someone asking for our help? Turning them away? As the 4th richest country in the world it should be our duty to provide aid and safety to anyone who needs it, welcoming them with open arms and not a dental check up. 

It seems that the only time we can muster a degree of sympathy to these people is when we put ourselves in their shoes. This idea of only caring when it directly affects is thrown around time and time again, from being told to imagine Donald Trump "grabbing" the vagina of our own wives or children in order to spark a reaction, Save The Children's short film on how it would look if London were a war torn country also urges us to look at the crisis as though it were us in their position - if you can't see suffering if you're not the victim, then something is wrong here. We need a radical change to how we view others; regardless of country borders, nationalities, cultures, religions - regardless of ANYTHING - we are all just people who happen to be born in different places and into different ways of doing things, it doesn't mean have different emotions or fears.

Although the right wing media might hate to hear you realise it, in-equality is created. 

It will never fail to amaze me that those trying to change the widespread opinion on refugees are labelled as activists, emphasising just how rare it has become to show love and compassion; The 1975's lyrics underlining how trying to escape conflict isn't a choice that you wake up one morning and stumble upon. You aren't midway through picking your breakfast cereal when an idea pops into your head that "hey, it might be a nice day to travel thousands of miles by boat". These are doctors, nurses, teachers, mothers, fathers, rich and poor making a choice on which option they feel gives them the best odds on life - the difference between living and dying. Staying or seeking refuge. 

Friday, 9 September 2016

Donald Trump: A Friendly Reminder

In the highly unlikely event that you aren't already disgusted by the bigoted, sexist, racist, misogynistic, vile excuse for a human being - Donald Trump - then here's a friendly reminder that next month he is going on trial for allegations that he SEXUALLY ASSAULTED A 13 YEAR OLD GIRL. Yes, not only sexual assault but paedophillia too... nothing says amazing potential president quite like sex offender does ay? 

The case follows two previous accusations of sexual violence made against Trump, including one made in 1989 by his first wife that he had brutally raped her. Considering the language the oh so lovely Mr Trump has used when talking about women in the past it's not hard to imagine that he is capable of crimes like these; degrading terms such as "pigs" "dogs" and "disgusting animals" are apparently synonyms for "women" in Trumps thesaurus, as well as his openly admitting to find his own daughter sexually arousing. 

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October 14th is when Trump will appear in court, presumably to disprove or prove the allegation - providing the American legal system isn't biased in favour of him as a rich white man in a rape case of course. Note the sarcasm. 

Thursday, 4 August 2016

Equality... Or Ice-Cream?

A video of a white policeman in America pulling over a black woman, for no crime other than "driving without an ice-cream cone" has been circulating social media this week. When it appeared on my timeline I was nothing but embarrassed that as a white person, like myself, he has responded to such a huge injustice with an ice cream? Now, I know the intention behind this gesture was clearly to overcome racial divisions with a simple act of kindness - but it is the sheer terror on the woman's face that is the most powerful thing in the video for me. Her immediate readiness for a fight, an unnecessary fight to defend her lawful driving to - who she presumed - was another racist cop. 

That is the REAL issue here, not the lack of ice-cream. Black Lives Matter isn't highlighting an injustice in white drivers receiving cool treats on hot days, its about the innocent BLACK lives that are taken by police officers that have racial prejudice as their only motivation/reason to pull the trigger. You can't eradicate racism with a 99' and a flake. 



Big Brother Biphobia

Recently I have started to notice a weirdly accepted disapproval of bi-sexuality, sadly particularly from member's of older generations who believe its simply a fashion 'trend'. This extended to noticing comments on the TV this week when Christopher Biggins and Renee were having a conversation on Celebrity Big Brother about how "bisexuals are the worst".... nice. As a gay man himself, this bizarre non-acceptance of an entire section of the LGBT+ community coming from WITHIN the community itself surprised me. The pair went on to discuss how people should "pick a team" - what Chelsea? Arsenal? Manchester United? A persons sexuality isn't a game so stop treating it like one. Oh how ironic that those 'outraged' tweets were sent by the young. I agree with Biggins - bi- sexuality is just so 'trendy' these days and these people who talk of their 'fluid' sexuality - all the so called 'outraged' viewers are people under 30 who seem to buy into this trend.Oh how ironic that those 'outraged' tweets were sent by the young. I agree with Biggins - bi- sexuality is just so 'trendy' these days and these people who talk of their 'fluid' sexuality - all the so called 'outraged' viewers are people under 30 who seem to buy into this trend.Oh how ironic that those 'outraged' tweets were sent by the young. I agree with Biggins - bi- sexuality is just so 'trendy' these days and these people who talk of their 'fluid' sexuality - all the so called 'outraged' viewers are people under 30 who seem to buy into this trend.Oh how ironic that those 'outraged' tweets were sent by the young. I agree with Biggins - bi- sexuality is just so 'trendy' these days and these people who talk of their 'fluid' sexuality - all the so called 'outraged' viewers are people under 30 who seem to buy into this trend.nhjjk=hjhtsssasasaddahghh

        "oh how ironic these 'outraged' tweets were sent by the young. I agree with Biggins - bi-sexuality is just so trendy these days and these people who talk of their 'fluid' sexuality - all the so called 'outraged' viewers are people under 30 who seem to buy into this trend" 
a comment on the Daily Express' article on this topic

It also surprised me that not more viewers picked up on the comments, with some taking to social media to express their disdain, while the majority of it's audience stayed silent. There seems to be a weird mindset that unless an issue affects you directly - you ignore it? 

Dear society:
You don't have to be gay to be outraged by homophobia, you don't have to be bisexual to be outraged by these comments, you don't have to be black to be outraged by the way black people aren't treated equally and you don't have to be a woman to be outraged by the way women are treated. 

Oh how ironic that those 'outraged' tweets were sent by the young. I agree with Biggins - bi- sexuality is just so 'trendy' these days and these people who talk of their 'fluid' sexuality - all the so called 'outraged' viewers are people under 30 who seem to buy into this trend.



Oh how ironic that those 'outraged' tweets were sent by the young. I agree with Biggins - bi- sexuality is just so 'trendy' these days and these people who talk of their 'fluid' sexuality - all the so called 'outraged' viewers are people under 30 who seem to buy into this trend. 

Monday, 25 July 2016

In Pictures: Brighton

I spent a few days in Brighton last week and fell in love with it's emphasis on equality and general kindness to everyone. From it's overwhelming support for the LGBTQ+ community, to the stickers on every lamppost about the homophobia and sexism that certain political parties promote *cough* UKIP *cough* and the importance of not supporting these ideologies, Brighton impressed me as a vibrant seaside town with adorable independent cafés and stores - deffo worth a visit!

Tuesday, 5 July 2016

#____LivesMatter

This week I have began to see the hashtag "Muslim Lives Matter" floating around on various social media platforms. Now, this is a something that has caused controversy, with some people feeling like it undermines the #BlackLivesMatter movement. Aside from that however, I feel what we can't ignore is that in this beautiful and culture rich world, we are reliant on hashtag's to remind people that it's not just white Christians that are important.

In the past 10 days alone there have been 4 terror attacks in predominantly Muslim countries and here in the West we have barely bat an eyelid. The first attack was in Turkey's capital city of Istanbul, killing around 41 people. I was actually in Turkey at the time and it was heartbreaking to hear about the how local people were suffering as the impacts of this, and past acts of terrorism, continue to spread across the country; consequently having a huge affect on the tourism industry. Aside from this, I was deeply saddened by the minimal reaction it received from those back at home. The Paris attacks last year were met by a sea of French flags as Facebook pictures, copious amounts of tweets and Instagram posts expressing their condolences - however my news feed looked as though no-one was even aware of the news. The apathetic response to the devastating events in contrast to the passionate and extensive coverage (rightly so) of the Paris attacks, for example, was in comparable. This presents the ever prominent point that the media just don't seem to care as much if the victims are from the East. 

Baghdad, Dhaka and Madinah have also all been at the peril of evil attacks this week - the death toll of over 200 in Baghdad virtually ignored by the UK media, the minute reaction it received in terms of the its extremity is inadmissible.

It is so important that we remember and continue to express our recognition that these lives matter just as much as those that are nearer to us in terms of geographical location (or language or culture). Why is it okay that hundreds of people are dying and we aren't talking about the fact that Muslims are the very people being killed by so called Islamic groups?

Saturday, 22 August 2015

Life Lately

"summer is when laziness finds respectability"

This post is essentially just a catch up and end to my month (upon month) long bloggers block. Although this summer never really seemed to happen, there was minimal sun and minimal plans - contradicting my expectations of the "best summer of my life" that I thought was supposed to finishing school (?!) I have lacked any inspiration for post's following a stressful time of GCSE exams I was simply far too focused on revision and panicking for results day to fit in blogging. However, having received my results, which were a pretty little mixture composed of A's and A*'s, I am feeling very content with life and can't wait to go back to writing so WATCH THIS SPACE.
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Sunday, 22 February 2015

Topshop Unique AW15

"AW15 was all chunky cable knits, thigh-split tweed kilts and dainty thistle prints"
At 2:30 this afternoon, Topshop Unique took to the Tate Britain to unveil their new autumn-winter collection, as part of their London Fashion Week display. The front row was star-studded with models Kendall Jenner and Cara Delevigne sat alongside fashion journalist, Alexa Chung. The collection featured a lot of fur and feather trim, teamed with chunky knits and tan leather, the autumnal colour scheme providing connotations of the countryside; with a lot of the audience describing  the collection as having "country bumpkin" feel. 
The AW collection has a focus on texture, Topshop paring rough leather with fur creating a juxtaposition; like the contrast between delicate floral prints and the daring gingham fabrics.
What do you think of the AW collection?

Thursday, 24 April 2014

Spring Snapshots

One of, or perhaps even my favourite, things to photograph are flowers. I'm not a huge nature person but I really appreciate it, I think everyone should take the time to study their surroundings; when you're having a bad day I find it nice to refresh myself with what we really have. Anyway, here's a few of my many floral photographs, since it's almost summer I think my blog needs some blossom to brighten it up.

Monday, 31 March 2014

Mothers Day


This mothers day my mum was giving no hints and i really mean NO hints and so rather than panic buy her yet more bath bits to add to the contents of the bathroom cupboard i decided to get some treats and create a simple yet sweet high tea. I added the Thornton's fudge, pink coconut macaroons and a daisy cupcake to the layers of our cake stand and make us both tea in these adorable vintage tea cups. To add to the mood i lit a few candles and picked a flower from our garden, putting it in an empty jar (so pintrest). What did you do for mothers day this year? I could do with some inspiration for the next!

Monday, 17 March 2014

Company Magazine // April 2014

This months issue of Company magazine featured the blogger-sphere's very own, Zoella (Zoe Sugg) on the front cover! Zoe is a big inspiration of mine and walking into Tesco and seeing her face on the front of such a popular magazine fills me with joy. I've met Zoe personally and she is the loveliest, most deserving woman. It just shows you where blogging can get you.  

This issue was based around the city of London, from an interview with the mayor to the styles in different boroughs. Company gave us an insight to the up and coming spring trends (which i can't wait for ), be expecting a lot of pastels! It seems the Mac - St.Germain rave will soon make a re-occurrence, it's all about the "chalk" girls.


The free gift with the April issue was Company's "lashes" mascara. The packaging on this product is a gorgeous matte black plastic that provides maximum grip, meaning it's like likely for you to end up with a blob of black on your nose. I have only tried this mascara once and so i'm not the best critic but it did provide me with a full coverage, lengthiness the lashes slightly and separating them. I think it's more of an everyday rush out the house mascara as apposed to partying.

Wednesday, 5 March 2014

Spring Stroll



I know it's not officially spring time until the 20th of March but it sure does feel like it. Flower's are beginning to bloom and the sun is shining. Me and my mum stopped of on the way back from school for a stroll in my local forest and fields and i decided to snap some pictures, we also found this fox. What i think is a she, was sat just in-front of us we could have reached out and touched it if we hadn't panicked and tried to sneak away before it killed us. Haha. 

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Friday, 4 October 2013

“A mind That nobleness made simple as a fire, With beauty like a tightened bow” | Lemon Milk Etsy

Bows are my one of my favorite things so when this parcel arrived at my house i was overjoyed. I have lusted over Lemon Milk an etsy store selling handmade, gorgeous bows for ages so to finally have one is so great. Lev who owns the store was kind enough to send me a bow, all the way from Canada, in return for a post so of course i jumped on the offer. For those of you who aren't familiar with her store you can visit it here. Warning, you will fall in love.
In my parcel i received the "spring flowers" hair bow, a gorgeous mint green fabric with dainty lilac flowers printed all over. I love the way it's so colorful, now its fall time I'm always looking for something to jazz up my outfit and add a pop of color so im sure this bow will hardly leave my head in the coming months.
 She also wrote me this ever so cute note in a thank you card. I think packaging is so important when it comes to etsy and she certainly didn't disappoint. The bow was rapped in a pink paper and the card appears to be homemade, i love how you can tell just how much Lev puts into her business, it totally pays off.
I really hope you all go and check out the store, you'll love it i promise! Let me know what your favorite lemon milk product is in the comments, i've just spotted her silver bow bracelet which is definitely going on my wishlist. 

Follow Lemon Milk on instagram for giveaways, coupons and exciting lemonmilk news!
@lemonmilkdreams

Tuesday, 27 August 2013

She Loved Life And It Loved Her Right Back


These bags honestly are the nicest things since sliced bread & bumble bee's
The lovely owner of the store Tea Please was kind enough to send me one of her oh so cute tote bags.
I have liked her etsy store for ages now so i was over the moon when i received one of her quote tote bags in the mail.
The bag itself is so sweet and the packaging is just the same. It came in a pink bag which she had decorated with flowers, hearts and adorable sticker. She even went the extra mile and included a hand written note on the back of her business card. I've probably used the word "cute" way too many times already on this post but i honestly can't think of a better word to describe it.
The bag itself is, wait for it, unbelievably cute!
It has become my go to bag, the quote adds a nice touch to any outfit and the black and white of the bag means you really can wear it with anything. I love all of the bags in the store, you should definitely check out her other quotes. As if it couldn't get any better all Tea Please's bags are eco friendly and made from 100% natural and un-dyed cotton so you can treat yourself while saving the planet!
Amazing finds like this are a reminder of how much nicer smaller stores and unique pieces are compared to large chains that you cant walk down the street without seeing someone with the same bag as you.
Please please go check out their store, everyone needs some tea in their life!

Friday, 23 August 2013

Daisy-Mae Jewellery

Yesterday i received a parcel from the very lovely Daisy-Mae, owner of the equally as lovely etsy store "my green cow"
Inside the parcel were two items of jewelry, these gorgeous daisy earrings:
 and this silver infinity bracelet which is so so cute
 I have actually wanted an infinity bracelet for so so long now so im extremely pleased with this.
Daisy sells all kinds of jewelery and it's all handmade! She is honestly unbelievably talented. Both of my pieces are excellent quality and really well made.
Bracelets are often to big for me so the range of size she gives you with chain is really handy. The bracelet is a really pretty silver which will go with every outfit and add a delicate touch.
The earrings are just as great. They aren't too small that they are noticeable but they're not so big their practically in your face. Just right.
I love pastel pink and daisies at the moment so these are perfect for me! Plus they're the perfect summer accessory.

I really reccomend you go check out Daisy's store and look at all her other gems!
I might have to order some of her m&m earrings, unbelievably cute!


 *disclaimer*
all opinions are my own